Although few people will likely ever read this blog, it was
my husband’s insistence that I should start a blog which brought Buckley Banter
into existence. I am excited to share a
little bit about my best friend, how we met, and our relationship.
Mike and I met on the first day of my Junior (his Senior)
year in college. I moved into an
apartment of three female friends, becoming the fourth. Mike was one of the four roommates in the “counterpartment”
across the hall. That first night, we
all went out to dinner. I would be
dishonest to say our relationship was anything close to love at first
sight. While, there was something about
his confidence, I perceived Mike to be a little too loud outspoken for
my taste. The “counterpartments” continued
to spend time together; we shared meals, watched football, etc. During the preceding months, Mike and I began
to spend more one on one time together.
One of our favorite pastimes was doing crosswords while watching weekend
football.
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| College |
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| Hiking |
Our friendship blossomed into a dating relationship. Mike and I continued to date beyond his
graduation from Pepperdine and commissioning into the US Army. Our relationship survived a period of long
distance (he in WA, me in CA). We were
engaged in April of 2009, and married the very next month. Mike and I were married May 8, 2009, and I
began a cross-country move to Maryland the next weekend. While Mike prepared for his first deployment
to Afghanistan, I was beginning my career as a nursing student at Johns
Hopkins.
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| My Soldier at his Commissioning Ceremony |
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| Engaged at the Zoo |
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| Wedding Day |
After a long year apart, Mike and I began our married lives
together in the Pacific Northwest. We
adopted our puppy Buckley, and later bought our first house. Although we had started trying to expand our
family, plans to have children have been put on hold because Mike is deploying
at the end of the year.
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| Puppy Kisses |
I cannot say enough good things about my best friend and
husband. Mike is my other half. I often tell people that he is one of the few
people who can make me feel dumb…constantly reading, learning, and full of
knowledge. He may be the messiest
person alive slightly messy, but he is always willing to help me clean up
the kitchen after a long day at work. I
challenge you to find a dog who doesn’t love him. Mike is a wonderful soldier with such a strong
commitment to service. He is the person
that makes exploring a new place or sitting on our couch feel like the place I
want to be. I cannot wait to see what
the future holds for us!
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| My Best Friend |